Your platonic girlfriend…
Part:
best friend
cool mom
partner in crime
wing-woman
with a side of relationship and intimacy coach
Sturdy, capable, here for you.
Get “friend-zoned” in the best possible way!
Are you starting over or need dating practice? By getting to know me, you’ll get to know yourself, promise!
Considering opening your existing relationship? I can be a great starting point!
Traveling for work and need the nervous system regulation of an emotionally intelligent woman? I’m a great support.
Where can you talk about absolutely anything while grabbing dinner, cuddling, or finding adventure? It’s like going to your talk therapist* but inside a professional, platonic relationship that looks a lot like dating.
*I’m not a trained talk therapist. I’m trained as a surrogate partner, and I’m a Cuddlist certified relational-based touch professional. I’m regularly taking additional training and self-educating around various topics around sex and relationships.
As a human connection coach and the owner of The Human Connection Lab in San Diego, I regularly work with coaching clients of all genders around Southern California and the Mid-Atlantic, visiting the Baltimore/DC area quarterly. Outside of coaching, I’m a Co-owner and Director of Training for Cuddlist.com - a cuddle therapy training organization. I also host The Intimacy Lab podcast.
Local date rates:
Standard coaching rate: $200/hour
Bundled pricing for your platonic girlfriend experience:
Up to 4 hours $680* (170/hr) - dinner and a cuddle
Up to 6 hours $960* (160/hr) - the introverts travel companion
Up to 8 hours $1200* (150/hr) - the extroverts travel companion
*additional time can be added at the end of the date for a standard rate of $200/hr.
Travel together or immersive stay in the same home:
$2000/24 hours. When traveling together, time is prorated from the start of travel to touch down back in San Diego. If traveling separately, half-rate applies. Separate rooms are always required. I do not spend the night in the same room with clients. As an introvert, I need my recovery time and my sleep.
As a historically sexually adventurous yet asexual, neuro-spicy queer cis woman, I have explored various forms of relationship styles, including the spectrum of nonmonogamy. Yet, I’ve also appreciated and enjoyed seasons of monogamy. Additionally, I have over a decade of experience in the BDSM and Kink worlds. I’m a great tour guide and mentor and possess a giant therapeutic toolbox
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I enjoy staying closer to the ground so no sky diving for me! But I do enjoy (indoor) rock climbing, nude beaches, zoos, museums, and architecture tours. Oh, I also LOVE rollercoasters but hate those big drop style rides. I can hold my own with easier board games and retro video games. Got a date idea outside of that list? Bring it to me and I’ll deeply consider it.
I love dogs and can appreciate a friendly kitty.
My love languages span the gamut, so yes, I even love gifts! Don’t fret, I speak them all fluently too.
My mandate in life is simplicity. Nothing too complicated for me! I prioritize ease and pleasure in life. And while I might take a moment to make a decision, you’ll know it’s authentic. If my mind changes, as a direct communicator I’ll practice kindness and communicate it.
With almost 10 years of experience coaching clients around touch and communication, I come with a confidence and sturdiness that will quickly flow into an easy professional relationship that feels closer to friendship.